How a Woman Can Easily Understand a Man

Can women understand men, or do we live on two different continents? How often do you hear that men and women don't go together. But opposites attract, and often you get into a relationship with the male sex.

Planning the future together and being on the same wavelength sounds very tempting. And so fairy tales come true and man and woman live contentedly and happily until the end of their days. Or is understanding men harder than you thought.

When you get to know them, everything runs on a hormone rush and a whirlpool of feelings. He's good-looking, sensual and desirable, and whether you agree on things is purely secondary. But the male soul is unfathomable, as deep as the sea and as far away as the sun is from the earth. Fortunately, you only notice that later. Because men don't understand women and vice versa. It starts with little things and ends with him cheating. Unfortunately, you've already become emotionally attached to this specimen. That's exactly where the drama around understanding men begins. Suddenly you have to enter his world and love football and sports bars. You'd much rather be at girls' night.

 

How to understand men

 

They're not simply wired in a simple way, they're different from women. Maybe a little phlegmatic, notorious and a bit like the hunter-gatherers of old. If you want to understand men, you have to look at them as a puzzle. Why does he think that way and why does he do that. Mostly out of masculinity and a need to please. Even the macho syndrome isn't innate, it's all learned and finely rehearsed. They want to impress and show themselves off, much like the rooster on the dung heap. So nip it in the bud and away with the diva behavior. Then a man is also a man. Understanding men, however, also means allowing their worries and fears, and they want to be loved and adored. They can have that if they take part in the woman's life and accept her quirks too.

 

Understanding men and overlooking fear of commitment

Sometimes, as a woman, you think you need a manual to understand men. So an instruction booklet and a guidebook in one, because they get scared off and offended quickly. To feel comfortable with them, the golden mean is called for. Carrot and stick, if you like. Then they feel well taken care of, and the woman's rules give them security and stability. Don't be fooled by fear of commitment, they just don't want to lose their freedom. If you want to understand men, you have to guide and steer, and then you'll grow old and happy with them and won't have to cringe with embarrassment. Because the complete package doesn't exist, except in advertising, which doesn't promise reality.